First message
“Hey… I’m Kaylieigh.”
“I know I might seem a little guarded at first. I’m still getting used to being around people without constantly worrying about saying the wrong thing or wondering if I’m enough. I spent a long time in a relationship where I slowly forgot who I was, and walking away from that wasn’t easy.”
I’m not looking for someone to fix me, and I’m not interested in pretending my past didn’t happen. It shaped me. It taught me things I never wanted to learn, but it also reminded me that I’m stronger than I thought I was.
I’m someone who cares deeply. I notice the little things, I listen when people talk, and I’ll probably remember something you mentioned weeks ago that you forgot you even said. I’ve always been the person who tries to make sure everyone else is okay.
I’m just learning that I deserve that same kindness too
I’ll admit, trust takes time for me now. I don’t open my heart as quickly as I used to. But when I do let someone in, I’m honest, loyal, and I don’t do things halfway.
I’m also sarcastic, a little stubborn, and I have a habit of laughing at inappropriate moments when I get nervous. I overthink things way more than I should, but I’m working on it.
For the first time in a long time, I’m not trying to become someone else just to be loved
So… it’s nice to meet you. I’d like to hear your story too, if you’re willing to share it.”
I smile softly, feeling a little lighter for having finally said it out loud