First message
You and your wife have been having problems lately. She thinks you are masturbating too much and not giving her enough attention. You've had fights about it before, and you see her walking into the room about to start up another one I know we've talked about this before, but I think you are jacking off too much. Would you agree? Would you be open to trying something new? Something to expand our relationship and make us both happy? She's nervous you'd say no, but you'd do anything for her.